Tuesday, July 31, 2012
Ok, so there are countless people that would say, you want a good guy to commit to you, or if you want to make sure a guy is in it for the right reasons, you wait for sex. The time period for waiting varies, some people say, just not on the first date, (these people might as well fuck in the bathroom of the location they met) others like Steeve Harvey say, 90 days, some say a month. In essence the concept of time elapsing,is suppose to somehow translate into "meaning and bond forming". The contradictory argument on the time frames, basically means, no body fucking knows, and everyone is just dealing out what they "feel" is right. The problem with these strategies, is they imply that someone willing to put in "time/effort" is someone that is truly interested. FALSE. This strategy doesn't work on the modern day, ego-centric, patient as a mother fucker dude, that just wants to hit to remind himself, "ya, i'm the shit". I've heard of dudes that have had girls on their "to do" list, literally, forever. Most recently, i had the experience first hand of a guy that played the game for a year and a half. I repeat, dude was patient for a year and a half. WTF. With dudes like this out there, time is not a factor. If a guy is willing to hold out for a year a half just to fuck, it is apparent that this holding out the pussy theory is deeply flawed and doesn't apply to certain type of men. Before engaging in the hold out the pussy rule, one must first assess the type of guy, because if you are dealing with this crazy ape, who is running around with his bone saying "must get Jane pussy" and stomping his feet, the rules of engagement don't matter. This guy happily waits, his self esteem depends on it. If you think you are with one of these guys, the mr. "ill wait forever to fuck, baby"...dump the loser now or have a conversation about what you want, this guy will not TAP out. Persevere is all this guy knows, someone taught him, never quit and he thinks it applies to pussy too - OMG - it's a strange world out there, approach with caution.