This week I’m going to divert the attention from my morbid love life for a second to address an issue that I see on the rise, coupled girls seeking male attention. I currently have some friends in "committed” relationships that are secretly looking to be “rescued” from their runner up romance. Why stay committed if you are not happy? And while you, miss, coupled up, attempts to gain the attention of the single guy, what are the single girls to do? L.A. is daunting enough a space to date, without worrying about a group of girls with boyfriends all in my sandbox. Get OUT! Shall I go hit on your unsuspecting boyfriend? If you aren’t happy in your relationship, you need to get out of it and join the single’s party. Playing both sides of the fence isn’t cute. Trying to get another to uproot you is not fair to the person you are dating, the guy that thinks you are available or the other single girls that are willing to ride the tide unlike you. End RANT.
I know we are living in a time where it seems we can and should have it all, but let's get real, if you are tempted on daily basis, you are likely with the wrong person and should accept that and do something about it. Or heck, talk about having an open relationship, I recently had a guy tell me that the idea of marriage isn't attractive to him because he doesn't want someone in his "business" all the time, so he'd rather an arrangement that affords him a lot of space. WTF. Things are modern as they get nowadays and people are increasingly rejecting the status quo. Carve out your relationship the way that works for you, crazy as it may seem to others. Grow some balls and be willing to go for what you really want.
Please forward this to anyone you think is guilty of this behavior.