Monica Santa: A booty call for me is someone who you hook-up with. READ: have sex with, but never see outside of the house. No dinners, no dates, just "come over"...which leads to sex. I've actually fallen into this situation once without realizing that was what was going on. LOL. Now, I've heard stories of people hooking up and going out at the same time & I think that might qualify too. As a matter of fact, in the end, if you aren't officially boyfriend and girlfriend, you might as well call it a booty call. We are therefore all engaging in booty calls or extended booty calls on some level, whether we realize it or not.
The Juggler: Since I'm new in this arena, I feel that it should just be all about the SEX. I've already fallen into seeing mine outside the bedroom (going out and meeting his friends 2 weeks in a row) which of course will change quickly. I like it uncomplicated and no deep discussions about personal life. A booty call is someone that you enjoy when "in need" nothing else. With that said, I am looking to the love of my life... not the fuck of my life. Well hopefully the love of my life will also satisfy me in the bedroom.
Honey Badger: Booty calls vary from couple to couple. Wait! What the hell am I talking about? The words "booty call" never belong in the same sentence as the word "couple!" Ahhhhh!!! Okay, now that I got that out of the way, I really do believe it depends on the nature of the two people involved. I've had a few in my hay day and they've all been different. With a couple of them, the sesh happens in a matter of 1 or 2 hours every few weeks. It starts with a text message, then becomes a spontaneous visit to one another's pad, idle chit chat ensues and then we get down to the real business at hand, followed by a quick departure. I also had another booty call who would cook or take me out to dinner, get drunk together, spend the night and the next day before I could even climb out of bed, he would go to Starbucks to get me a coffee while I got dressed for work in the morning! In all situations, these guys have one thing in common - they are not relationship material. So, for me, it's easy to tamper with their goods without emotionally getting involved. It's a definite win-win.